Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen."

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If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

On Leadership: Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. Dale Carnegie

1. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone...
2. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
3.You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
4.Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
5.It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
6.Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
7.If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
8.Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.
9.Don't save it for a special occasion,
Today is special.
10.What other people think of you is none of your business.
11.However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
12.Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
13.Believe in miracles.
14.All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
Regina Brett

Clay Balls
A boy was exploring caves by the Seashore. In one of the caves he found a bag with a bunch of hardened clay balls. It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in the sun to bake. They didn't look like much, but they intrigued him, so he took the bag out of the cave with him. As he strolled along the beach, he would throw the clay balls one at a time out into the ocean as far as he could. He thought little about it, until he dropped one of the clay balls and it cracked open on a rock .. Inside was a beautiful, precious stone!
Excited, he started breaking open the remaining clay balls. Each contained a similar treasure. He found thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the 20 or so clay balls he had left.
Then it struck him. He had been on the beach a long time. He had thrown maybe 50 or 60 of the clay balls with their hidden treasure into the ocean waves. Instead of thousands of dollars in treasure, he could have taken home tens of thousands, but he had just thrown it away!

It's like that with people. We look at someone, maybe even ourselves, and we see the external vessel.. It doesn't look like much from the outside. It isn't always beautiful or sparkling, so we discount it. We see that person as less important than someone more beautiful or stylish or well known or wealthy. But we have not taken the time to find the treasure hidden inside that person.
There is a treasure in each and every one of us. If we take the time to get to know that person, and if we ask God to show us that person the way He sees them, then the clay begins to peel away and the brilliant gem begins to shine forth.
May we not come to the end of our lives and find out that we have thrown away a fortune in friendships because the gems were hidden in bits of clay. May we see the people in our world as God sees them.
I am so blessed by the gems of friendship I have with you. Thank you for looking beyond my clay vessel.
ANGELS
Two traveling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room. Instead the angels were given a space in the cold basement.

As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied... "Things aren't always what they seem".
The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field.
The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel "how could you have let this happen!? The first man had everything, yet you helped him," she accused. "The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let their cow die."
"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied. "When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it. Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave her the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem."
Miley Cyrus - The Climb
" God hides a tree in a seed. He hides a king in a shepherd boy. He hides a man in a baby. He hides himself in a carpenter's son. He hides many special things in you. Discover each one of them. Remember, you are greatly blessed.."

Kindness is an inner desire that makes us want to do good things even if we do not get anything in return. It is the joy of our life to do them. When we do good things from this inner desire, there is kindness in everything we think, say, want and do.
- Emmanuel Swedenborg

Rita Levi Montalcini, a Nobel Prize-winning scientist, said even though she is about to turn 100, her mind is sharper than it was she when she was 20. "At 100, I have a mind that is superior — thanks to experience — than when I was 20,"."Above all, don't fear difficult moments," she said. "The best comes from them."
Heros dont leap tall buildings or stop bullets with an outstretched hand; they dont wear boots and capes. They bleed and they bruise and their superpowers are as simple as listening or loving.

Heros are ordinary people who know that even if their own lives are impossibly knotted, they can untangle someone elses and hope that maybe that one act can lead someone to rescue them right back
- Jodi Picoult -

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
- Leo Buscaglia

Everone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile

The true measure of a man is how he treats someone that can do him absolutely no good.

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.
He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down. A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a stepping stone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.
. . . The donkey later came back, and bit the farmer who had tried to bury him. The gash from the bite got infected and the farmer eventually died in agony from septic shock.
MORAL FROM TODAY'S LESSON: When you do something wrong, and try to cover your a**, it always comes back to bite you.

Research validates that generous people seldom have emotional and mental problems-at least they have fewer than most. It seems that generous, loving people who are interested in others get their eyes off themselves. You know when we constantly focus on ourselves, our view is more and more drawn to our own weaknesses, our own frailties, our own failures.
Take a lesson from research please, and set your attention on people out there! Be generous to them; be grateful and loving to others. Not only will you feel better, but you'll make others feel better too. Proverbs 11 in the Good Book says, "A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed." That was true then, and it's still true. Dr. Paul Faulkner

A smile is an inexpenisve way to improve your looks :-)

The only survivor of a shipwreck washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few possessions. But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stung with grief and anger. "God, how could you do this to me!" he cried.
Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. "How did you know I was here?" asked the weary man of his rescuers. "We saw your smoke signal," they replied.
It is easy to get discouraged when things are going bad. But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain and suffering.
Remember next time your little hut is burning to the ground- - it just may be a smoke signal that summons the grace of God.

The whole of life is but a moment of time. It is our duty, therefore to use it, not to misuse it.Plutarch

"When it comes time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home." - Chief Aupumut, Mohican. 1725

A grandmother was telling her grandson a story about his granfather. It went like this: When your grandfather was a little boy he wanted a toy gun for Christmas that costed $50.00 dollars. And everyday he would tell his daddy what he wanted and how much it costed. Well, Christmas morning came and he unwrapped his gift and it was a Bible. He was so upset that he never even opened the box the Bible was in. Years later, after his fathers death, he was going through some stuff in the attic and found that old Bible. And he opened it, flipping through the pages and a 50 dollar bill fell out.
The little boy looked up at his grandmother and said, 'Why didn't he just tell him there was money in there?' and his grandmother said, 'Why didn't he just read the Bible?'

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There's no use being a fool about it.:-) W.C. Fields

No act of kindness, no matter how small is ever wasted.
- Aesop, Greek fabulist

A mouse looked through a crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife opening a package. What food might it contain? He was aghast to discover that it was a mouse trap.
Retreating to the farmyard the mouse proclaimed the warning: "There is a mouse trap in the house, a mouse trap in the house!" The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Excuse me, Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it."
The mouse turned to the pig and told him, "There is a mouse trap in the house, a mouse trap in the house!" "I am so very sorry Mr. Mouse," sympathized the pig, "but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured that you are in my prayers."
The mouse turned to the cow. She said, "You say, Mr. Mouse. A mouse trap? Like I am in grave danger....NOT!"
So the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mouse trap alone. That very night a sound was heard throughout the house, like the sound of a mouse trap catching its prey. The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see that it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer's wife.. The farmer rushed her to the hospital. She returned home with a fever. Now everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient. His wife's sickness continued so that friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig. The farmer's wife did not get well and a few days later she passed away. So many people came for her funeral, that the farmer had the cow slaughtered, to provide meat for all of them to eat.
So the next time you hear that someone is facing a problem and think that it does not concern you, remember that when the least of us is threatened, we all may be at risk.

"He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it. He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it." - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Heaven and Hell
A man spoke with the Lord about heaven and hell. The Lord said to the man "come, I will show you hell". They entered a room where a group of famished people sat around a huge pot of cooking stew. Everyone in the room was starving and desperate. Each person held a spoon that reached the pot but each spoon had a handle so much longer than their own arms that it could not be used to get the stew into their own mouths. The suffering was terrible.
"Come now, I will show you heaven" the Lord said.. They entered another room identical to the first, the big pot of stew, the group of people and the same long-handled spoons. But here everyone was happy and well nourished. "I don't understand" said the man. "Why is everyone happy here and miserable in the other room? Everything is the same." "Here," said the Lord "they have learned to feed each other "

Thomas Burnett, the leader of the courageous men that fought back against the terrorists on United Flight 93 on September 11, 2001, that crashed in Pennsylvania.
On the air phone to his wife:
"Pray, just pray, Deena. We're going to do something," Tom Burnett told his wife.
They prayed the 23rd Psalm:
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures
He leadeth me beside the still waters ...

There are only two ways to live your life. One as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is